How Many Times Removed? Untangling Distant Family Relationships

How Many Times Removed? Untangling Distant Family Relationships

Joining MyHeritage can connect you instantly with people you never knew you were related to — but exactly how are you related to them? First cousin twice removed? Second cousin once removed? What does the “removed” mean, and what’s the difference between all these types of cousins? And what do all the “greats” in great-great-aunts or -grandparents mean?

In this post, we’ll clear up the confusion once and for all.

The grand and the great

First, let’s address the question of the “great” prefix, because as you’ll see later on, it’ll help us with the other questions.

The general rule is this: every “grand” or “great” signifies going back one generation.

So your father’s father is your grandfather, your grandfather’s father is your great-grandfather, and your great-grandfather’s father is your great-great-grandfather. You can figure out how many generations back the ancestor is by counting the “greats” and “grands” and adding 1: your great-great-grandfather, for example, has 2 greats and 1 grand, so he’s 4 generations back.

It works the same way with uncles and aunts. There are two standard ways to refer to your grandparents’ siblings: granduncles and grandaunts, or great-uncles and great-aunts. In both cases, the “grand” or the “great” signifies going back a generation. So your mother’s sister is your aunt, your grandmother’s sister is your grandaunt or great-aunt, and your great-grandmother’s sister is your great-grandaunt or your great-great-aunt. Your great-great-aunt and your great-grandmother both came 3 generations before you.

When saying all those “greats” gets cumbersome, you can shorten it by simply using the ordinal number of “greats”: for example, your great-great-great grandparent is your third-great-grandparent, your great-great-great-great-grandparent is your fourth-great-grandparent, and so on. Some people will say “3-times-great-grandparent” instead.

Now that we’ve got the distances between direct ancestors sorted out, we can wade into the murky waters of cousin relationships.

Cousin number = number of “greats/grands” in the term for your common ancestor

The number of your cousin (first, second, third) is calculated by the shortest distance in generations between either you or your cousin and the ancestor you share.

What does that mean? Let’s start with the simplest examples:

If you share a grandparent, the distance between you is 2 generations, and that makes you first cousins.

If you share a great-grandparent, you are separated by 3 generations, so you are second cousins.

If you share a great-great-grandparent, you are separated by 4 generations, so you are third cousins.

In other words:

[number of generations] – 1 = number of cousin relationship


Number of “greats/grands” in the term for your common ancestor = number of cousin relationship

Simple enough, right?

The plot thickens

Well, it gets tricky when we start moving up and down generations. Because the ancestor you have in common with, say, your parent’s first cousin would be your great-grandparent, but the cousin’s grandparent. So how many “greats” and “grands” do we count?

That’s where the “shortest distance” factor comes into play. Your parent’s cousin is your first cousin (once removed, as we’ll explain in a minute!), not your second cousin, because even though the ancestor you share is your great-grandparent, that ancestor is your cousin’s grandparent — and that’s the shortest distance in generations between you.

This also works the other way: the child of your first cousin will be your first cousin (once removed), because though the ancestor you share is that child’s great-grandparent, the ancestor was your grandparent. One “grand”=first cousin.

Still confused? Just remember this: your parent’s first, second, and third cousins are your first, second, and third cousins (once removed), and your grandparents’ first, second, and third cousins are your first, second, and third cousins (twice removed).

Okay, so what does the “removed” mean?

“Removed” = distance from *the cousin* in generations

A cousin “zero times removed” is a cousin from the same generation as you. For example, your first cousin is the child of your parent’s sibling. Your parents were part of the same generation, and so are you and your cousin. Your second cousin is the grandchild of your great-uncle or -aunt. Your great-uncle is in the same generation as your grandparents, which means you are in the same generation as his grandchild.

A cousin who is “once removed” is a generation above or below you. For example, your dad’s first cousin, as we mentioned above, is your first cousin, but she is “once removed” because there is a generation between you and her. Another example of a cousin once removed would be the child of your first cousin. Your first cousin is in the same generation as you, so his child would be one generation below you.

A cousin who is “twice removed” will be your cousin’s grandchild or grandparent, or your grandparent’s cousin.

To summarize

Here’s what you need to remember:

  • Number of “greats” and “grands” + 1 = number of generations back from you
  • Cousin number = number of “greats/grands” in the term for your common ancestor (and if it’s different for you and your cousin — the shortest one)
  • Your direct ancestors’ first cousins are your first cousins, their second cousins are your second cousins, etc.
  • Times removed = number of generations between you and the cousin

Got it?

If not — no worries! MyHeritage automatically calculates your precise relationship to relatives you’ve entered in your family tree. You can find the relationship right beneath the relative’s name in their person card:


If you’re not sure how a DNA Match is related to you, MyHeritage has a number of tools you can use to solve the mystery: for example, Theory of Family Relativity™, AutoClusters, and the Chromosome Browser.


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